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The Situation of Staring

Posted by The Situationist Staff on April 1, 2008

by Makasu - FlickrFrom American Psychological Science:

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It’s happened to all of us: While sitting at the conference table or at dinner party, a friend or colleague unleashes a questionable remark that could offend at least one person amongst the group. A hush falls and, if you’re like most people, your eyes will dart towards the person most likely to take offense to the faux pas. It’s a doubly unpleasant experience for the offended: Not only have you been insulted, but you have also suddenly become the center of unwelcome attention.

This almost instinctive stare toward the potentially offended has garnered the attention of researchers seeking to understand why this phenomenon occurs. Psychologist Jennifer Randall Crosby of Agnes Scott College and her colleagues created an experiment using the especially sensitive topic of race in order to take a closer look.

In a study appearing in the March issue of Psychological Science, a journal of the Association for Psychological Science, the researchers had participants watch recorded discussions between four males (three White and one Black) that dealt with university admissions. In the course of the video, one of the white males makes this potentially controversial remark:

“I think one problem with admissions is that too many qualified White students are not getting the spots they’ve earned. These students work hard all through school and then lose their spots to members of certain groups who have lower test scores, and come from less challenging environments. They get an unfair advantage.”

In one condition, an off-screen narrator explicitly states that all participants are involved in the discussion. In the other, the narrator states that only two of the discussants (both white) could hear what was being said. The researchers then tracked participants’ eye movements as they watched the videos to examine when their gaze would shift toward the Black discussant.

Their results show that participants fixed their eyes on the Black discussant four times longer when they believed he could hear what was being said. According to the authors, this demonstrates that complex cognitive processes are work when we glance at potentially insulted persons. According to the researchers, “participants are simultaneously attending to what is said, who can hear what is said, the social identity of the listeners, and the possible reactions of the listeners.”

Why we do this behavior is still a somewhat of a mystery, but the authors suggest that people may seeking out the responses of potentially victimized group members to help them assess the situation. “Additional research is needed to address these issues,” write the authors, “but we believe this paradigm is rich with possibilities and can help illuminate how people go about answering the thorny question of what is appropriate and what is offensive.”

From Time Magazine:

When Imus mouthed off last year about the women’s basketball team from Rutgers, the media looked to African-American intellectuals and female cultural leaders to determine whether his remarks — referring to the young athletes as “nappy-headed hos” — were his standard brand of on-air provocation or if he had in fact crossed the line into racism.

In 2002, when then Senate Majority Leader Trent Lott suggested that if separatist candidate Strom Thurmond had been elected President in the 1948 election, “we wouldn’t have had all these problems over all these years,” we turned to prominent members of the black community to determine how far he had overstepped.

“There was a lot of conversation about whether he was a racist, or whether was he just ignorant,” says Crosby. The ensuing cultural discourse, and subsequent condemnation of Lott’s comments, fascinated Crosby, and prompted her research. “How do we figure out what is discrimination?” she asked. More blatant offenses or extreme examples such as hate crimes are easier to determine. Crosby, however, wanted to home in on the nuanced and ambiguous circumstances more common in everyday life.

In her latest research, currently under peer review, she asked students to fill out questionnaires about scenarios in which discrimination was possible but not explicit. A company remains open on Martin Luther King Day, or a police officer stops a black man whose clothing and hair match those of a crime suspect, for example. “They’re ambiguous because we want more information,” Crosby says. “If it’s an ambulance company, you might want it to stay open,” or if the person in question is actually the criminal, you would want him to be stopped.

Participants were asked to rate the discrimination on a scale from 1 to 9, where 1 represented no discrimination, and 9 definite discrimination. To gauge how people influence one another’s views of discrimination, she made the questionnaires appear as if previous participants had filled out their answers on the same page. “When faced with responses attributed to a white individual, people averaged 4.4 when whites said the items weren’t discrimination and 5.2 when whites said the items were discrimination. When the same responses were attributed to a black individual, the means were 3.3 and 6.1, respectively — a significant move from the baseline,” she explains.

Consistent with her previous findings, non-blacks’ assessments of the situations were strongly affected by whether African Americans had supposedly answered before them.

Crosby worries that this deference may mean we don’t trust our own instincts when deciding what is offensive. As Benoit Monin, one of the study’s co-authors, says, “That’s great, of course, that downtrodden groups have a voice,” but it also means that too often we may be leaving the responsibility for confronting discrimination in the hands of those discriminated against.

Crosby recalls an example of this from her undergraduate career at Stanford. The school’s sports teams were called the Indians from 1930 to 1972, when the name was dropped because of protest from Native American students. Still, from time to time the former mascot would appear on t-shirts and paraphernalia — and each time it fell to Native American students to bring up their objections to the administration, Crosby says. “Why is it always their job?” she asks.

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To read a related Situationist post, see “Hoyas, Hos, & Gangstas.”

3 Responses to “The Situation of Staring”

  1. Situationist Staff said

    Andy Perlman, a law professor at Suffolk University who is doing very interesting situationist work in legal ethics and who is a friend of The Situationist had the following thoughtful comments regarding why people stare in the wake of potentially offensive remarks. We thought they were worth sharing (thanks, Andy!):

    [Regarding the post about staring, t]here was some speculation about why people might stare at the person most likely to take offense by someone else’s remark. Notably, nobody mentioned a reason that seems intuitive to me. Namely, I think human beings are frequently watchful for potentially dangerous or violent situations. If there is a chance that there might be violence, we like to know about it sooner rather than later. And when one person insults someone else, I think our instinct is to look at the insulted person to see if the situation might become physically dangerous or threatening.

    . . . .[That wouldn’t] explicitly explain why people would stare at the offended person, even when there is no actual danger, such as when the offense takes place on television and the offended person is only on a screen. My response would be that our staring is not a conscious effort to assess danger. Even though we might rationally know that we’re not in any danger when we watch the confrontation on a television screen, we’re hardwired to watch people’s reactions to an offensive remark as a form of self-protection. After all, we evolved when offensive gestures, actions, or comments would have occurred a short distance away, not on television.

    One way to test whether I’m right about the concern for physical safety is to run the television experiment again, but in one version of the experiment, the experimenter tries to distract the subject from watching the t.v. when the offensive remark happens, such as by calling the subject’s name. In another version of the experiment, subjects could be placed in the same room as where the offensive remarks occur. My hunch would that the subject would be less likely to turn away from the scene when it is taking place in the same room (i.e., in person). That is, the person will register a greater risk of a physical altercation and would be less likely to look away when his/her name is called under those circumstances than when the scene is unfolding on a screen. Of course, there might be other reasons for the reluctance to turn away (e.g., an in-person portrayal is inherently more compelling), but a physical safety consideration would seem to be at least a partial explanation.

  2. What’s mysterious about looking at someone to see how he/she reacts? I can hardly think of any human behavior in social settings that is any less mysterious.

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